{"id":621,"date":"2025-01-30T20:28:54","date_gmt":"2025-01-30T20:28:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychotherapie-vondelpark.info\/?p=621"},"modified":"2025-03-12T16:50:00","modified_gmt":"2025-03-12T16:50:00","slug":"gemaakte-fouten-van-mensen-die-niet-naar-elkaar-luistereni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/praktijk-osimo.nl\/en\/gemaakte-fouten-van-mensen-die-niet-naar-elkaar-luistereni\/","title":{"rendered":"People who don&#039;t listen to each other"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The most common mistakes people make when they don&#039;t listen to each other\u2026.<!--more--><\/p>\r\n<p>Don&#039;t listen<\/p>\r\n<ol type=\"1\">\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Mind reading, you know the other person better than he knows himself<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Blame instead of wishes<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>The &#039;I Say, Pattern&#039;\u2018<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Generalize<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Requirements of feelings or spontaneous behavior<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>To talk in general terms<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Questions that aren&#039;t questions: &#039;Do you still love me a little?&#039;\u2018<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Attacking the Man: Insults from Character Analysis<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Look at yourself reactions<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>To stray from the topic and dredge up old grist.<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<li>Yes, but.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<!-- \/wp:post-content -->\r\n\r\n<!-- wp:separator {\"opacity\":\"css\"} --><hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\" \/><!-- \/wp:separator -->\r\n\r\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\r\n<p>Annet Huffels, Talking to your partner.<\/p>\r\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De meest gemaakte fouten van mensen die niet naar elkaar luisteren&#8230;.. 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